Is this an asshole move? [Archive] - High Altitude Imports

Dave_L

06-16-2008, 09:41 AM

Mario

06-16-2008, 09:45 AM

Just sounds like an insecure dewd to me. Keep cat callin'! ;)

john

06-16-2008, 09:48 AM

Yes. You are an asshole. Carry on.

slowfocusguy

06-16-2008, 09:53 AM

So this means you wont freak out when I'm sleeping with your girl and mom....at the same time?

:smashfrea

303Mike

06-16-2008, 09:53 AM

I would have said the same shit. If I was walking w/ my lady and some drunk ass said some shit like that it would be on. Dont get me wrong but it says to the guy that you feel he is a douche and you could treat her better or that you have no respect for people in a relationship. Not to say I'm fighter or pissed off but dont get it twisted. If I'm with a girl its for a reason. So let that shit ride.

If she was eye fucking you then fuck her. The girls that are in relationshp and looking for something better are the same shamless cunts that give women a bad name. These girls are so caught up that they would rather have a guy buy all there shit but as soon as a (better) thing comes along they jump ship.

That is my rant on the subject for today.

way2slow

06-16-2008, 09:58 AM

Asshole move! Show some respect for there relationship and her decision for being with him!

Dave_L

06-16-2008, 09:59 AM

So this means you wont freak out when I'm sleeping with your girl and mom....at the same time?

:smashfrea

I didn't fuck the girl or continue to persue her. It was a simple hello. :)

Dave_L

06-16-2008, 10:02 AM

Show some respect? Not showing respect would have been following them down the road, continually hitting on her and telling her to dumb her BF. If you're dating a hottie, you gotta understand what comes with that territory. Especially when there's a bunch of drunk asses around.

Terry

06-16-2008, 10:06 AM

I would have stabbed you.

Conrad

06-16-2008, 10:16 AM

asshole move...

Brandon

06-16-2008, 11:08 AM

Haha, nice move I say. Drunkeness is a dandy explanation. I wouldn't go as far as saying the guy was insecure or anything like that though.

Pang

06-16-2008, 11:14 AM

If I was that guy I wouldn't have said anything back but take a nice grab at my girls ass or something in the nature :D

Mario

06-16-2008, 11:15 AM

If I was that guy I wouldn't have said anything back but take a nice grab at my girls ass or something in the nature :D

:werd:

HONDA GHANDI

06-16-2008, 11:19 AM

asshole move. The dude's responce wasnt very original though.

Dave_L

06-16-2008, 11:21 AM

If I was that guy I wouldn't have said anything back but take a nice grab at my girls ass or something in the nature :D

Fuckin' A! Thank you. That is what I would do too.

vince

06-16-2008, 11:52 AM

Ha im guilty of this as well. I remember telling some guy to take his chick on a horse carriage ride. He flipped out.

06-16-2008, 12:34 PM

Ha im guilty of this as well. I remember telling some guy to take his chick on a horse carriage ride. He flipped out.

;wor; :spit:

Kwando

06-16-2008, 01:29 PM

Leave it to dave to start shit!

i don't think its an asshole move. that prick over reacted... you could have know her. maybe an ex. etc. You should have stomped his face in and then shot him in the back of the head.

jackmode9316

06-16-2008, 02:25 PM

HONDA GHANDI

06-16-2008, 02:35 PM

Horses are not primary purchasers of saddles. :D

jackmode9316

06-16-2008, 02:40 PM

Everybody like a piece of ass, nobody likes a smart-ass.
With that said, dont (jack)asses wear saddles also?

Brandon

06-16-2008, 03:35 PM

Ha im guilty of this as well. I remember telling some guy to take his chick on a horse carriage ride. He flipped out.

Haha that's one for the story books.

Dave_L

06-16-2008, 03:46 PM

I like pangs response the best, it would be fresh to rub it in.

Personally I think it was a little bit of dick move, but it could have been much worse. I definitely don't think it was a move that required homeboy to start talking shxt or fight about it or anything though.

If everyone calls you a horse, maybe its time to shop for a saddle.

I'm not questioning the guy's response. My question is in regards to my actions of talking to the girl while she's holding a guys hand. I was branded an asshole for doing that. It's not like I was seriously laying the mack down on her.

And for all those people that said "I'd kick your ass". Don't you think that's a little extreme? I didn't slap her ass, try to kiss her or anything.

06-16-2008, 04:13 PM

I would have bent her over and did her in front of you so you had somethin' to beat off to at the end of the night.

jackmode9316

06-16-2008, 05:08 PM

I'm not questioning the guy's response. My question is in regards to my actions of talking to the girl while she's holding a guys hand.
Here

Personally I think it was a little bit of dick move

...............

91taurisho

06-16-2008, 05:13 PM

What if the guy was just a friend and holding her hand? I've done worse in the past. The best one was when she ended up taking me home... The look on his face was priceless

Holding hands is not always a sign of dating.....

Dave_L

06-16-2008, 05:47 PM

Holding hands isn't always a sign of "off limits" either. :D

chrisbarnett01

06-16-2008, 06:08 PM

maybe the guy called you a faggot because he thought you were whistling at him?

Terry

06-16-2008, 06:09 PM

Or maybe he called you fag because you were holding the inside of your other friends pants pocket.

vince

06-16-2008, 06:20 PM

Haha that's one for the story books.

Ha got to love drunk walking down town. Nobody is safe.

Holding hands isn't always a sign of "off limits" either. :D

Ha like i've said before, Just cause there's a goalie doesnt mean that i cant score.

Loud_Scott

06-16-2008, 06:28 PM

the jury is in; not an asshole move. if the guy is stupid enough to get butt hurt and want to fight you then fuck him.

the correct response is "yea, and she's going home with me...." and maybe the ass grab. if you cannot say the above with your S/O when someone hits on 'em then you need to re-evaluate yourself, or your S/O. if you don't have a reason to worry then don't do it...

dave... maybe you should be drunk dtown with cooler people, instead of escaped nuns?

91taurisho

06-16-2008, 09:25 PM

Sorry to tell ya dave, but off limits doesn't mean "off limits" nowadays...

Chris, we all know you whistle at guys, but that's another topic for another time...

jackmode9316

06-16-2008, 10:07 PM

Or maybe he called you fag because you were holding the inside of your other friends pants pocket.
:rofl:

V8SpankR

06-17-2008, 12:43 PM

The jury still look likes it concluded it was at least a disprespectable move and just should think before acting next time. How do you know they weren't married? I guess it's a young person thing since that wouldn't fly with my peers.

You say she might want something better to come along but how do you assume you are the something better? After all you're the one kinda being a dog and try to fish in private waters and I bet almost all women would be calling it an asshole move.

Brandon

06-17-2008, 01:49 PM

Juries have to be unanimous, so if there's any jury decision it would be not guilty.

I don't think Dave was trying to hook up with said woman. He was just being a drunken fool which is expected late on a Saturday night downtown.

jackmode9316

06-17-2008, 02:19 PM

Drunken Fool=Asshole.
Doesn't usually matter what specific actions are taken, its more than likely the case. ESPECIALLY when the said Drunken Fool is around friends.
Dave, Your a dick, deal with it. Then again, nice guys finish last. AND If your not first, your last, right?;)

Im personally curious what women think. Wishful thinking though, HAI is THEE sausage fest.

Dave_L

06-17-2008, 03:38 PM

All the girls in my group said it was an asshole move but I don't really care what they think. Girls say one thing but like/want the other. I know it wasn't the "polite" thing to do but it was fucking 2 am on saturday night. I was walking down 16th street mall drinking a beer. If that doesn't say/indicate that I'm just fucking around, I don't know what else does. Have some fucking fun in life. I bet it was that guys first GF ever so he had to be billy badass and defend his girls honor. :rolleyes:. Step up your game and give your girl a confident slap on the ass. "Nothing says good job like a firm pat on the ass".

jackmode9316

06-17-2008, 03:49 PM

Touche Dave. Your actions were excusable. Drunk downtown pretty much means anything goes.

redb20teg

06-17-2008, 03:52 PM

i think I've done this before...but to be more polite (but yet hoping the girl hates the dude and eventually comes to me) I give compliments to him tellin him what a hottie his girl is and so she can hear me...both times I just got thank yous and one time it was his sister. haha

redb20teg

06-17-2008, 03:53 PM

Drunk downtown pretty much means anything goes.

yeah!!!:Beer:

MrsGhandi

06-17-2008, 05:44 PM

Yes, that was a dick move....

However, you probably made her night...although she would never tell the boyfriend that....lol

Dave_L

06-17-2008, 06:00 PM

Girls say one thing but like/want the other.

However, you probably made her night...although she would never tell the boyfriend that....lol

Point proven. :D

-=[Juztin]=-

06-17-2008, 06:08 PM

you sure it wasn't a guy you hit on? hahaha :fu: :D

Loud_Scott

06-17-2008, 10:30 PM

The jury still look likes it concluded it was at least a disprespectable move and just should think before acting next time.

Juries have to be unanimous, so if there's any jury decision it would be not guilty.

Sorry, Lawyer McAttorneys -- The jury of "one" is in; that guy is a douche and clearly over reacted. The prosecution can suck it, and the defense rests....bitches

myshtern

06-17-2008, 10:49 PM

Dude overreacted, big asshole move

Weston

06-17-2008, 11:11 PM

I know lots of girls that are in relationships waiting for "something better to come along".

Yes, but do you really want to get involved with someone like that? People who are always wanting something more will never be satisfied and it's only a matter of time until they just leave you, or cheat on you, as well. It's not like they're going suddenly realize that they've got it great and stop being a shallow whore.

As for "cat calling" in general... well, I suppose the kind of girls that respond positively to that are a good match for the kind of guys who do it.

jackmode9316

06-17-2008, 11:16 PM

Well said sir, well said.

talice

06-17-2008, 11:26 PM

From a girls point of view, if she was happy w/ the guy and he didn't do anything or defend the relationship, then I'd be upset. A man shouldn't let anyone hit on their girl. And if the girl was "waiting for better to come around" then fuck her. She's a whore. Thats the kind of girl that gives the rest of us bad names. Dick move? not so much. Drunken move? I'd say so, so its alright. Lol. The guy Over-reacting?? Eh, a little, since he could have chosen better words.

91taurisho

06-18-2008, 02:24 AM

Yes, that was a dick move....

However, you probably made her night...although she would never tell the boyfriend that....lol

that's the best thing I've heard all night!

V8SpankR

06-18-2008, 08:19 AM

Touche Dave. Your actions were excusable. Drunk downtown pretty much means anything goes.

"Sorry officer,I was drunk"

Yeah,that excuse will work everytime. :smashfrea

jackmode9316

06-18-2008, 08:39 AM

"Sorry officer,I was drunk"

Yeah,that excuse will work every time. :smashfrea

I'm sure that excuse wont work with THE MAN. On the other hand telling myself "Fuck it, I was drunk" has helped me (And others) excuse certain actions that ended up being regretted later. So I figured the same would apply here.

Dave_L

06-18-2008, 09:23 AM

I never said I was trying to date the girl. ;) I just expressed interest in her. Did I expect the guy to say "Here sir, take my girl. I will say nothing or do nothing." Of course not. If he said something like that, Id kick him in his nuts and take his girl.

You guys are making it seem like I was sitting there kissing on his girl or something. Holy hell, I said whats up to her as I was walking down the street. I'm sorry that it seems to bother so many people but it's time for a reality check. IF YOU DATE AN ATTRACTIVE GIRL, SHE WILL GET HIT ON. If you can't handle the thought of another guy expressing interest then go date some ugly fat chick. Your problem will be solved and you won't have to get scared about losing her.

jackmode9316

06-18-2008, 09:40 AM

I heard you say that you walked up and started making out with her. My bad.

Terry

06-18-2008, 10:42 AM

My gf bought a fake a 12 dollar ring to put on her ring finger cause she would get hit on all the time.

Brandon

06-18-2008, 10:54 AM

My gf bought a fake a 12 dollar ring to put on her ring finger cause she would get hit on all the time.

If you think that's what she bought it for, you're mistaken. She's hinting for you to ask her....

Terry

06-18-2008, 11:02 AM

Yeah right i have atleast a solid 4 years before that happens

vince

06-18-2008, 11:10 AM

Tell her your gunna think about it for 30years then forget about it.

Dave_L

06-18-2008, 11:24 AM

Just tie a string around your finger and be like "This is here to remind me to ask you to marry me. It also looks like a ring which should be sufficient".

V8SpankR

06-18-2008, 12:37 PM

You were the one who asked if it was an asshole move now your just shooting down the people that said yes and justifying your actions so really why did you start this thread?

You homer. ;) I guess it would be great to be in my early 20s and be a dog again.

Dave_L

06-18-2008, 12:50 PM

I just wanted to get some other opinions and see if any of them made sense. They don't and they haven't changed my mind on this subject. I just wanted to see if there was something I was missing.

Weston-work

06-18-2008, 03:49 PM

This thread needs more cowbell.

Ashton

06-18-2008, 08:12 PM

Mistake a. you should have waited. mistake b. you didn't take her home *shrug*

V8SpankR

06-19-2008, 08:05 AM

We'll see what your opinion on this is when you are in a solid relationship and 5 or so years from now.

If a woman was to dump her man or do something behind his back just by you flirting with her then she'll do the same to you.

Karma is a bitch.

hrcDSM719

06-19-2008, 01:57 PM

So we were downtown on sat night. We were heading back to the lightrail so it was late and everyone was pretty drunk. As were walking down the street, a girl passed by us holding a guys hand. She was pretty good looking so I cat called her. Nothing crazy just a simple, "Hey girl, what's going on?". The guy replies "Fuck you faggot". So i chuckle, say the "Whatever blah blah blah". Well then everyone in my group proceeds to say that i'm an asshole for cat calling a girl that's holding hands with a guy. That if she looks happy, I shouldnt say anything to her.

I say it might be arrogant but not an asshole move. Just because she's holding some guys hand, doesnt mean she's happy. I know lots of girls that are in relationships waiting for "something better to come along". The second side to my arguement is that the guy already has won when I say something to his girl. He's already got the girl and he's taking her home. If some guy hit on my girl, I'd just say smile and say thanks. But apparently, I am wronging in my way of thinking on this.

What's your thoughts?

Dudeman, I completely agree with you... Im not one to talk at girls when they're with their dudes, but as far as some dude trying to talk to my girl, thats a compliment!

....it also kinda depends what the girls facial expression was after the "hey how ya doin" deal. If she gave you the come hither smile, then nah man, yer not an asshole.....Mr. Protective obviously ISNT doing something right!

On the other hand, if she kept a blank face, or looked offended in any way, then ya. ....yer the asshole...haha

nolimitsoldier

06-19-2008, 02:19 PM

it depends on the context and their actions with me. If i'm with my girl and someone thinks she's hot, i really don't mind. But, if they start hitting on my girl after it's made clear not to, then i get pissed. Or if i'm really drunk i may get pissed. But if she goes over there and starts getting it on with them, then i don't care, because that would mean she's a whore and not someone i want to be in a relationship.

So my .02 is you don't sound too ass-ish, but kinda because it's a little disrespectful. I'm on the fence on this one.