My girlfriend...

[Tonnerre]

Well, I have a girlfriend now, which is great but there is some issues. First of all, I do not think that there is chimestary. She like me a lot. She always wants to hang out and everything. We have sex a lot too which is a plus but there just seems to be something missing. I am thinking of breaking up with her, but I also do not want to hurt her. I do not know what to do. I do not want to keep leading her on, I wish we could go back to friends.

[Deceptakhan]

We have sex a lot too which is a plus
It always is a major plus Tonnerre, it always is.

I do not want to keep leading her on

having sex with a girl is definently leading her on, unless you both know its just for fun, and can see other people. Good times.

[Tonnerre]

I want to be happy, and I am not, but I do not want to hurt her. What should I do.

[Deceptakhan]

Whats missing? Do you like her? Do you like sex? Is she annoying? And you're not expecting a movie type romance and connectivity are you?

[Tonnerre]

I just can not place it. There are other girls that I am more intrested in. My girlfriend is not very open, and a smoker. She does have a lot of great qualties, but it seems like I was happier when I was single and able to look around.

[Deceptakhan]

I just can not place it. There are other girls that I am more intrested in. My girlfriend is not very open, and a smoker. She does have a lot of great qualties, but it seems like I was happier when I was single and able to look around.

Lol Tonnerre. Dude, the grass will ALWAYS look better on the other side, or appears so. I am married and I definently look and sometimes want other women. Smoker stuff, that you have to figure out, we can't give you advice on that. Do you like ash trays?

Many times you have to overlook the bad, or you'll never be happy. When you find "the one" you'll know, otherwise keep her around or it'll be back to the palm again. Or go meet people. And, when I am single, I wish I had a lady. When I had a girlfriend, I wish I was single. Pros and cons to each, I think what you want is a "friend". Those are very fun, and can be found in unexpected places. Like old friends that were females, bars and such. And if they like the fit, you'll have plently of noncommitment booty.

[Tonnerre]

Thanks for the advice. We do have fun.

[Deceptakhan]

Thanks for the advice. We do have fun.

Oh, its poor advice at best. Except for non commitment booty. Find this asap! If I weren't married, I would still have a couple of those. Ahhh well, responsibility sucks sometimes.

[M@]

Bonnerre, stick it in her butt. That's the best solution.

[Deltron_3030]

tell her youre gay

[bo0stedk2o]

tell her youre gay

lmao

[ryanman]

Alot of times the grass does look greener on the other side BUT it's not always true. If I were in your shoes I would just keep screwin her until either you figure out what it is you don't like about her or you find another "friend". That's not good advise or anything but not having a fuck buddy sucks. Been there, done that, don't want to do it again.

[john]

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[SlamMan]

Don't overlook the bad stuff. It's not going to go away. The purpose of dating is to find out if you're going to be compatible long term, i.e. marriage. If you don't break if off you're not being fair to her. If you had a daughter who was dating a guy who was kinda meh about her would you want her to keep seeing him?

Yes, when you break up with her she'll be hurt. That's life. It's no excuse for draging it on. The longer you wait the worse it will get too.

The "one" is going to be a person that you completly admire and respect. I could tell right away by reading your first post that this isn't the case. Time to sack it up and do what's right.

Good luck.

[AP1Sean]

Well since on the topic me any my gf of 6 months just broke up a week ago. we liked eachother a lot and all never cheated and so on.. I started having some troubles in my life and i started to lean to her so support that i didnt have. She said i was depressed and i told her i wasnt and that i was happy when i was with her :) so i started to cheer up and look at life better. got a new job and everything. then like 3-4 days before we beoke up i got this feeling that something bad was going to happen.. we werent talking much and didnt see eachother much. then some fucker at a party tried to get on her and she didnt tell me about it i found out another way... so i confronted her about it and she said she did nothing back which i believe. (for the time being) i found out who he was some fucken bitch from her class he plays football and shit so im assuming he thinks hes some sort of BAMF.. then the day we break up hes on her myspace number 1 slot.. i think wow what a fucking bitch. he writes on his oh how he couldnt live without her and shit so this just pissses me more off.. then he posts "my gf's name is in a realtionship" i think this bitch ass is trying to rub it in my face. i still do like her.. eventhough my friends and everyone tell me not too i just do.. :/

So please what the hell should i do? kick his ass? move on or try to get back with her. the only reason she broke up with me is because she couldnt take it that i wasnt happy with my life at the current time and that i always needed her to be there for me... what should i do?!?! please help me!!

[bo0stedk2o]

Well since on the topic me any my gf of 6 months just broke up a week ago. we liked eachother a lot and all never cheated and so on.. I started having some troubles in my life and i started to lean to her so support that i didnt have. She said i was depressed and i told her i wasnt and that i was happy when i was with her :) so i started to cheer up and look at life better. got a new job and everything. then like 3-4 days before we beoke up i got this feeling that something bad was going to happen.. we werent talking much and didnt see eachother much. then some fucker at a party tried to get on her and she didnt tell me about it i found out another way... so i confronted her about it and she said she did nothing back which i believe. (for the time being) i found out who he was some fucken bitch from her class he plays football and shit so im assuming he thinks hes some sort of BAMF.. then the day we break up hes on her myspace number 1 slot.. i think wow what a fucking bitch. he writes on his oh how he couldnt live without her and shit so this just pissses me more off.. then he posts "my gf's name is in a realtionship" i think this bitch ass is trying to rub it in my face. i still do like her.. eventhough my friends and everyone tell me not too i just do.. :/

So please what the hell should i do? kick his ass? move on or try to get back with her. the only reason she broke up with me is because she couldnt take it that i wasnt happy with my life at the current time and that i always needed her to be there for me... what should i do?!?! please help me!!

hit me up sean we'll go beat his ass

[HondaPower]

That sucks, I'm glad I'm not dealing with BS like that. ^^

[HondaPower]

TONNERRE POST PICS OF YOUR GIRL NAKED SINCE YOU DON'T LIKE HER ANYWAYS.

[stu]

Sean, she was going to break up with you anyway, it's not the other guy's fault. He probably had no idea that you were around, so there is no reason to go kick his ass. My break up was a lot worse than yours. I suggest you just move one from her. You'll find someone else. I always have to.

Tonnehrre: You keep saying that you don't want to hurt this girl, but hurting her is all you're doing. You are young, and don't even like this girl all that much. I'm kind of disappointed in everyone telling you to keep her around just to fuck. It's not worth her feelings and there is nothing wrong with being single for a while. Just let her know what's up and stop sleeping with her. The longer you lead her on, the more you'll hurt her and it won't be pretty.

[Deceptakhan]

Sean, she was going to break up with you anyway, it's not the other guy's fault. He probably had no idea that you were around, so there is no reason to go kick his ass. My break up was a lot worse than yours. I suggest you just move one from her. You'll find someone else. I always have to.

Tonnehrre: You keep saying that you don't want to hurt this girl, but hurting her is all you're doing. You are young, and don't even like this girl all that much. I'm kind of disappointed in everyone telling you to keep her around just to fuck. It's not worth her feelings and there is nothing wrong with being single for a while. Just let her know what's up and stop sleeping with her. The longer you lead her on, the more you'll hurt her and it won't be pretty.

The good advice you were waiting for Tonnerre. Just try to keep it civiclized, girls need sex too, just won't admit it.

[AP1Sean]

Sean, she was going to break up with you anyway, it's not the other guy's fault. He probably had no idea that you were around, so there is no reason to go kick his ass. My break up was a lot worse than yours. I suggest you just move one from her. You'll find someone else. I always have to.

But the thing is he did know she had a bf at the time cuz she told him she had a bf like a week or two before. the whole thing just sucks in my opinion. I wish people could just be more mature..

[stu]

But he didn't know it was you. If he personally knew you, then started banging her, you could take it personally. I agree, it does suck, but it's not worth fighting over.

[Dave_L]

Ill be honest, I could care less if some girl says she has a BF. You never know how that relationship is or will work out. Why should I give up before even knowing how things will turn out. If the relationship is strong, another guy hitting on a girl shouldnt effect it.

[saabracr]

Ill be honest, I could care less if some girl says she has a BF. You never know how that relationship is or will work out. Why should I give up before even knowing how things will turn out. If the relationship is strong, another guy hitting on a girl shouldnt effect it.

:werd:

They're not taken til they're dead. Its not my fault if some dude can't keep his girl happy. If she doesn't cheat on him with me, it will probably happen with someone else.

I dumped my girlfriend yesterday for similar reasons. Do it Tonnerre, there's never a good time to, but it will only get worse the longer you wait. If you want a fuck buddy go find one, and make sure you are up front about your intentions.

[M@]

Sean, of 6 billion people in the world, she was just ONE. Move on, and find someone better. :) I know it's MUCH EASIER said than done, but trust me. Any girl that does something like that isn't worth it. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Write that down.

[Tonnerre]

Well I have moved on. We broke up and I got the bike fixed. You are right, there are more fish in the sea and I should find the right one.

[-=[Juztin]=-]

that was the smatest thing you have ever done

[M@]

Well I have moved on. We broke up and I got the bike fixed. You are right, there are more fish in the sea and I should find the right one.
I wasn't talking to you when I said that. Also, if your bike is "fixed" why did you just make a thread looking for parts to fix it?

[AP1Sean]

Sean, of 6 billion people in the world, she was just ONE. Move on, and find someone better. :) I know it's MUCH EASIER said than done, but trust me. Any girl that does something like that isn't worth it. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Write that down.

Yea well i got over her and everything then her bf says hes going to come up to my house and kick my ass... says hes going to bring his friends with guns to my house. i doubt they will show up but i dont really want some crazy ass kids with guns showing up at my front door.. dont really need my family and neighbors seeing this or anyone getting hurt. also he said hes going to shoot up my car that i love soo much.. what do you guys think i should do???

[M@]

Honestly, EVERY new boyfriend says that. The odds of it happening? Highly unlikely. If they mean business, you'll know it.. at which point you involve the police. If you want, tell him you have a group of people with heavy artilary that you are best friends with (HAI Gunclub). Just blow it off, don't talk to him, don't answer unknown/blocked phone numbers, and let him be immature with himself. I actually just went through this with a friend, and what they're doing is called Menacing per Colorado State Statute 18-3-206. Menacing. (1)(a)(b). He's threatening serious bodily injury against you. If you have proof of it, he could be seriously fucked if you decided to go to the authorities about it and show them your proof.

Legally, since he is threatening to show up at your door with guns (with the intent to kill I'm assuming, not to scare you.. just being informative), it would most likely be a felony if he actually did show up (which I doubt he will).

[Tonnerre]

[QUOTE=M@;613917]I wasn't talking to you when I said that. Also, if your bike is "fixed" why did you just make a thread looking for parts to fix it?[/QUOTI can ride it right now, but I was wanting some of parts that are damaged replaced.

[AP1Sean]

Honestly, EVERY new boyfriend says that. The odds of it happening? Highly unlikely. If they mean business, you'll know it.. at which point you involve the police. If you want, tell him you have a group of people with heavy artilary that you are best friends with (HAI Gunclub). Just blow it off, don't talk to him, don't answer unknown/blocked phone numbers, and let him be immature with himself. I actually just went through this with a friend, and what they're doing is called Menacing per Colorado State Statute 18-3-206. Menacing. (1)(a)(b). He's threatening serious bodily injury against you. If you have proof of it, he could be seriously fucked if you decided to go to the authorities about it and show them your proof.

Legally, since he is threatening to show up at your door with guns (with the intent to kill I'm assuming, not to scare you.. just being informative), it would most likely be a felony if he actually did show up (which I doubt he will).


Yea I have what he said saved just incase he tried something. my brother is about to go to the police academy and my family personaly knows a former swat member who now trains new swat members. so were pretty well set with the law. So if he says anything else I'll just print out and give the information to the police and let them handle the kid ahah.

[Dave_L]

LOL! I got my gunz and my boyz and we are gonna be all up in your base, shootin' all your carz. Those type of people make me laugh. I bet he is 5'nothing weighing in at 140 lbs.

[AP1Sean]

LOL! I got my gunz and my boyz and we are gonna be all up in your base, shootin' all your carz. Those type of people make me laugh. I bet he is 5'nothing weighing in at 140 lbs.

ahah yea hes a real douche lol.. im just waiting for him to show up then have to police show up and i can wave him and his homizzz roll out in the back of squad cars lol and i got his life threatining message right on tap for the police too :D

btw he messaged me on myspace again and said better watch out im comin for you tomorrow BITCH. lol faggg

[2pteg]

i want to see this fags my space. what is it.

[AP1Sean]

i want to see this fags my space. what is it.

Ahah my luck your like one of his friends lol but oh well.. He has like one of those blocked ones or whatever that are meant for like little kids so they dont get hit on my like 50yr old guys and end up on one of Dateline NBC's specails lol

http://www.myspace.com/pimpc29

[2pteg]

lol he is not my friend. he is only 16 yr old. but good luck dealing with this lil punk.

[KennyKen]

So 3 pages and no pics of said girl?

[AP1Sean]

lookin for pics of my ex gf? lol

[Brandon]

I bet he is 5'nothing weighing in at 140 lbs.


which means what exactly? :D

[Brandon]

=-;613904']that was the smatest thing you have ever done


:rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

[ryanman]

lookin for pics of my ex gf? lol

Why yes, of course.

[AP1Sean]

lol i might have some but this fucking kid wont give up holy hell. does anyone kno how to find out all this guys info or anything? also is there a way to report him, and his threats to get the law involved cuz im sick of this fag harrassing me.

[M@]

I already told you, dude. Call the police, tell them you wish to file a harrassment/menacing complaint. They might send an officer over to see the messages.

[2pteg]

send tom a message. and lets see pics of the girl.

[AP1Sean]

I already told you, dude. Call the police, tell them you wish to file a harrassment/menacing complaint. They might send an officer over to see the messages.

Even if i dont know his last name or anything? cuz all i know is his first name, and what school he goes too.

[David]

lol i might have some but this fucking kid wont give up holy hell. does anyone kno how to find out all this guys info or anything? also is there a way to report him, and his threats to get the law involved cuz im sick of this fag harrassing me.
Do you know what car he drives? Take down is license plate number and pay $2 at the DMV, you'll get all the info you'd need from there.

[stu]

Even if i dont know his last name or anything? cuz all i know is his first name, and what school he goes too.

It's not that difficult dude. You know all your ex's info, and she knows all his info. The cops can handle a high school kid.

[AP1Sean]

alright sweet :)