I need help ::please read::

[WyoTeg]

Ok this may be weird because none of you guys with the exception of Stu know anything about my personal life but here goes. My Dad is a total jerk. He hit my mom,and I ever since I was little. My parents got divorced 5 years ago hoping things would get better but it just got worse. My mom has a boyfriend now and my Dad said he is going to kill him and drop his body off on our front step. Is there anything I can do? My mom is too scared to do anything and I have nowhere to turn. I just want it to stop.

[STIBungy]

What does your mom's bf think of all this? I would think he's not afraid of your dad.

[TXKompressor]

well I would say to have your mom get a restraining order against him or maybe your mom's BF has a gun and can protect himself...

Hell for enough money I will kill your dad if you want. J/K...

Sounds like a bad situation and I hope the best for you. call the police and ask them they may have some better legal alternatives

[David]

Hes bluffing, get a restraining order and be done with him

[WyoTeg]

Well if you knew my Dad you may understand there is a possiblilty he is not bluffing. My Mom's boyfriend is not afraid of him. Oh a piece of paper(restraining order) does jack shit. Been there done that it doesn't stop. He just causes chaos without being there.

[STIBungy]

You should disassociate yourself with your dad. A person is a bully only when there are people afraid of him.

[David]

if he was so pissed off to kill him, he wouldn't go blabbing it off to everybody...

granted I dont know him, but it sounds like hes just saying things for attention

[WyoTeg]

I have tried on more then one occasion to disassociate myself from him. But from what I understand until I am of the majority he has "legal rights."

[WyoTeg]

No my Dad is fucking crazy. He drove his truck through our garage door because my Mom's last boyfriend was eating dinner at our house. He also tried to kill my Mom on more than one occasion when they were married. He is just a fucktard. Like that stupid itch you get from a mosquito bite that just won't go away.

[STIBungy]

You should rub cortizone cream in your dad's eyes. Usually cures the itch for me.

[WyoTeg]

LOL!!

[MirageZ31]

lol good one Hung

[WyoTeg]

Maybe I should go find a lawyer forum LOL

[STIBungy]

It would probably be a good idea.

I think you have it in your head that your dad is somehow above the law. If the harassment is too much for you to handle, get a restraining order for yourself against him. If Al Gore can get a speeding ticket, your dad can get much worse.

Maybe I should go find a lawyer forum LOL

[rowan]

I'm not a lawyer yet, but my teacher is(was once the lawyer for the governor) and we've been talking some about situations like this. Did you hear your dad say these things, or did your mom tell you? If you personally heard them, go to the cops, they can get him for the threats against your moms boyfriends life. And talk to a lawyer or judge about not wanting to see your father. I'm guessing from the fact that you post on here that your are over the age of ten, you now have rights on whether you want to see him or not. Talk to the cops, they will be able to help you enourmously, especially if you get a really good cop that can't stand abusive jackasses.

[stu]

If you'd stop letting him buy you shit so he feels like he has control over you, that'd be a start.

[Skaterkid]

If you can get this stuff on tape or video you probably could get him arrested. Start finding as much evidence as you can. Statements from friends and family, past problems (like the truck incident), and any past police reports. You could get at least harassement.

[HondasTrail]

Are you still in good standing with your dad through his eyes? Are you able to be able to sit down with him and have a talk? If so try to appeal to him, tell him that you want it to stop. Thats if you haven't tried already.

Option #2
Buy gun (preferably .44 magnum). Let dad force his way into house. Aim point blank in between the eyes. Squeeze trigger. Now go clean up mess.

[B20civic]

kill your father.

[69 camaro]

Ok this may be weird because none of you guys with the exception of Stu know anything about my personal life but here goes. My Dad is a total jerk. He hit my mom,and I ever since I was little. My parents got divorced 5 years ago hoping things would get better but it just got worse. My mom has a boyfriend now and my Dad said he is going to kill him and drop his body off on our front step. Is there anything I can do? My mom is too scared to do anything and I have nowhere to turn. I just want it to stop.
There are agencies and foundations for battered women. Depending on your age, you have rights thru schools or the police dept. The toughest thing you and your mom need to do is stand united and be willing to stand up to him by testifying.. Are there any witnesses to his threats and abusive acts? Has he ever been busted for this or similar acts? You can not let this continue, it can be an idle threat or it can be real. It is tough to determine how far this can go but you need to document or record his comments to cover your ass. I hope this helps!

[SlamMan]

Talk to a family law atourney ASAP! It's bull shit that he does this stuff. It's not good though that no one has gone any further to stop it.

[monicle]

hopefully Darwin catches up to your dad and someone puts him in his place with a well placed crowbar to the face. People like that have no place in the world cept for the possibility of sicking them on enemys of the country. he peobably doesnt grasp the concept that the reason your mom is with the other guy in the 1st place is cause your dads a jackass. sorry man if i come off sounding harsh but ive got little patience for crap like that.

[Andrea]

Well if you knew my Dad you may understand there is a possiblilty he is not bluffing. My Mom's boyfriend is not afraid of him. Oh a piece of paper(restraining order) does jack shit. Been there done that it doesn't stop. He just causes chaos without being there.

You are right, a restraining order doesn't do shit.

I was in the same situation. My father is a complete asshole and always threatens my mother. I wouldn't put it past him if he hurt her again either.

My best advice is to cease all contact with your father. Call him and tell him that he is a worthless parent and he needs to stay out of your life and your mothers. I did that to my dad and told him if he tried anything I would have him killed in the worst possible way. He has seemed to leave my mother and me alone for the time being.

[s92dx]

Drug his drink. Get him to Mexico leaving him no ID of any kind, while unconscious. Leave him in a coffin, not nailed down, in a grave not filled in, wearing a tuxedo. Leave a note simply saying "You're Dead". Maybe dye a couple of rabbits' fur pink and leave them in the coffin with him.
Add in some other craziness of your own choosing and hopefully he will go insane, and you will never see or hear from him again.

[rowan]

Are you still in good standing with your dad through his eyes? Are you able to be able to sit down with him and have a talk? If so try to appeal to him, tell him that you want it to stop. Thats if you haven't tried already.

Option #2
Buy gun (preferably .44 magnum). Let dad force his way into house. Aim point blank in between the eyes. Squeeze trigger. Now go clean up mess.

I wouldn't do that exactly, because they could get you on premeditated murder. As stated above by someone else, try getting all the evidence you can and give it to the police, see what they can do.

[rowan]

If he threatens you by phone, there is a sequence of numbers you can push to record it, call the police station, they could give it to you.

[HondasTrail]

I wouldn't do that exactly, because they could get you on premeditated murder. As stated above by someone else, try getting all the evidence you can and give it to the police, see what they can do.
Negative. He doesn't know when dad is coming, so it's not premeditated. 2. It's home defense, he already knows his dad has the intent to harm. Open and shut case, self defense.

Edit: it was intended to be a joke, with a bit of seriousness.

[ryanman]

Negative. He doesn't know when dad is coming, so it's not premeditated. 2. It's home defense, he already knows his dad has the intent to harm. Open and shut case, self defense.

Edit: it was intended to be a joke, with a bit of seriousness.
It would still be premeditated, he knows what he's gonna do before he does it. I know it's a joke but it would still stand in court. We have these things called "Lawyers" and they know how to twist shit around.

[HondasTrail]

Either way, I would still do it. Better than just letting it happen and getting killed your self. I think it would still pass just because dad is forcing his way in with the intent to harm, and two you dont really know who you just shot until after you shot them.

[AgressivMX3]

I think you should first try sitting down with your dad, not while either of you are angry. Tell him how you feel about what he's doing, without cursing or yelling so that he knows you're serious and not just saying things out of anger.
If that doesn't do any good, remember that you "do" have rights, if you say you don't want to see him, then you don't have to see him. Period. You can contact CPS (Child Protective Services), if they get a phone call they will investigate.
Just because you're under 18 doesn't mean you don't have rights. Being a minor actually entitles you to more protection than an adult would receive. You don't have to be intimidated by him. You don't have to let him control your life. The best thing to do may be to break contact with him. At least for a year or so, he'll prabably get the message.
DO NOT, by any means, kill your father, that would not only end his life, but yours as well. Also I think you should definately not accept gifts from him, this gives him control and he will feel like you owe him something.
If you don't do something about it, it won't stop, don't fool yourself by thinking "maybe he won't do it again", he will.

[HondasTrail]

:werd: killing is a last resort.

[Bedlam]

:werd: killing is a last resort.

So you are against capital punishment then?

-Bedlam

[HondasTrail]

No I strongly believe in it, I just believe killing in that sort of situation for self-defense should only be a last resort.

[WyoTeg]

Ya. Thank you guys for the help. I am going to contact CPS tomorrow and take care of it. My Mom also bought a tape recorder for the phone line so it tapes when you pick up the phone. Should come in handy.

[stu]

Except that it's illegal to do it that way and will be thrown out of court. Well, it that's the way it is in Colorado.

[computingfuture]

just move and dont say where too